There’s some females who are out here handling their business but then there’s some women who you look at and say what in the world is going on in your mind and where is your self esteem? It seems like so many women are doing whatever they can to get or keep a man. Doing whatever means they are allowing men to come into their lives and they have set no standards for what they expect or want in a relationship at all. A man can come to you with no car but yet you’ll allow him to drive YOUR car around day and night while you wait for the bus or blow his phone up to see what time he’ll be picking you back up from work.
He doesn’t have his own crib but you allow him to live rent free in your home while he sits around and barely takes out the trash. You allow him to do whatever he wants, why, because you don’t wanna be alone or you feel like you’ll never find anyone else. LADIES let’s get some self respect and understand that a man does what he wants because you ALLOW this behavior. It shouldn’t take a Steve Harvey movie or a ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’ book to tell you this.
How many times does it have to be said that a man will treat you how you treat yourself? So until you put your foot down and tell him ‘no you can’t just take MY car and drive it around all day like I don’t have any plans’, then guess what? He’s gonna keep doing what he does and not pay you ANY mind. When you meet a dude let him know you have standards and certain expectations just like he should have some.
We won’t tell you to think like a man because let’s be real, we’re WOMEN, we’re not built with the mentality of a man but what we can do is think like women who have self respect and standards that are set in place so that whatever man gets close to us knows what to expect and understands that we ain’t no joke!
LADIES TAKE CONTROL…KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP AND IF YOU DON’T, TAKE SOME TIME OUT TO BE BY YOURSELF TO FIGURE IT OUT. YOU CAN’T GIVE OUT WHAT YOU DON’T HAVE!